Wishes :)

    What is the best way to make one happy ?
Consider what that person likes than what you want that person to like.......
Which reminds me .........many times I have chosen colors and things and dishes to present to some of my friends and family .although I didn't like the color or dish..........Its simple to make the other happy.........
Mother would be surprised when I took something that was darker shade of pink ..knowing I didn't like that color....But she understood....
         And yes I knew what she liked ...I never asked her what do you want on your anniversary or birthday ?...........She liked bangles ,Sarees, fragrant flowers, and selected dishes...Many times I remember her saying I wish /i had this .........after many years when I had something in hand to buy.....I bought something for her.......
    My brother knew I was fond of Jane Austins Pride and Prejudice ......:)
So one birthday.........I had got my gift...............
   I never got one dream gift though ............I used to want to be in a forest with lot of dense and green trees around with a flowing river near by and me sitting close on a smooth rock throwing pebbles in it...........some chirps some rabbits and deer running here and there and a squirrel trying to steel the lunch items I was eating..........and Mom wanted to visit a place where it snowed ........
   As a child I wished I had a doll with blue eyes too.............I used to read a lot as a child and for hours..........Now I smile remembering those days .........Wishes come into mind and fly into the air like feathers....... don't they :) N B

Lets think over and change aspiring for the best :) .............!

     We have forgotten that religions and castes were manifestations of people of different origin. Nature & nurture .... birth equals nature, and what teachers impart equals nurture.
We are not keen to change the system, in a manner such that, one day remains as religion would be humanity and quality.... of judging just by watching right & wrong, rather than segregating by caste or religion or community.
   While facing the almighty, we believe the rich , poor, and deprived are treated equally, but we do not act likewise with others. We wish being treated equal to a person who is perhaps richer by birth by god, but when he keeps someone of quality , caliber and value in front of us, we find newer reasons to treat & show that person how undeserving he/she is.
Who cares?????? Let the person loose faith in idealism and other good things he/she grew up with. Let new differences be created. Hope and dreams be shattered..We may find, this is good, but we will rub,scratch , subject the opportunity to harness that is god gifted , may be like a commodity, just like what one experiences in a stress test, to see if the opportunity sustains..And the best part is wasting minutes, days & time..... that is valuable that will never come back, leaving the one who is silently taking every test graciously..and finding his/her good heart probably getting subjected to all kinds of situations !Shedding tears but caring loving..
    Doctors, nurses & those who are into Catering field do a fairly fine job irrespective of the person who is their client so to say... they target at making the customer content or have an objective of welfare in their minds.
One should test the blood groups of people while taking a donation ??
No never ! A transplant?No ?
    Farmer who sows an reaps does so fall no particular caste! He is the only one we must bow to ..since he is like a cow who doesn't know how many people of so many religions feed on her milk. If she starts thinking like us She should just keep it for her calf !!
                                                              .....N B

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